When you ask God to come in and evaluate your life, He begins to show you the areas of your life that may be clogging your potential and ability to hear from Him.
So many people have been hurt to their core. Hurt, anger, and bitterness holds us captive and unable to move. We are justified by our reasoning but are in serious need of letting go so that we can be released into things of God.
Feeding families, ministers leaving the church to start their own ministries and taking your members, stealing husbands and girlfriends. We may think it is not fair and seek to go after our own justice nurturing the hurt while injuring ourselves in the process.
So many of us have been hurt so much but we retreated from the very things we are supposed to pursue and use the pain to build walls and thus have become isolated and lost the ability to be relational.
God loves us so much and He wants us to be sensitive to His voice so that we can become sensitive once again to His people.
When we forgive, God opens the doors! Often the ones who have hurt us will bless us! Forgive so God can forgive you and most importantly use you.