Coaching For An Extraordinary Life!
Sight is everything. What am I supposed to do now is always the question. Why did this happen? Widowhood forever? Why is grief a disease needing to be cured rather than processed? Soothing grief with habitual sex? How do we pause the busyness of the death business to heal? Daily we’re met with perspectives? What will you choose? Cracked Perspectives: The Truth About Sight…..coming July 2014. Pre-order begins June 2014
Recent reports rang throughout the world that all lives have been lost and the Malaysian Flight 370 loaded with approximately 239 passengers from all backgrounds, nationalities, and religions have perished.
In a recent interview, Prime Minister Najib Razak reported that the airline responded via text message declaring its “deepest regrets leading to an assumption that Flight MH 370 has been lost and that none of those on-board survived.”
Suddenly, a loud wailing burst forth from families whose repetitive questions week after week since this suspicious and mysterious vanishing of the plane led to no clue of understanding where their family members are. We can only imagine how helpless they must have felt to be in such a state with no definitive answers of the last moments of their loved ones.
This type of grief produces complicated grief for many where there is no finality associated with the death of a loved one and no proper burial or resting place. The passengers aboard were not just that or crew, they were fathers, children, mothers, sisters, brothers, cousin, and friends. We take this time to pray for those who are survivors of the lost.
In the days ahead, the tasks of grief may seem complicated but we wish the family peace in gaining acceptance for the loss of their loved ones. The tasks of grief, developed by William J. Worden include
All of these things will not be done overnight, we pray for the strength of the families in the days ahead.
This is the week of my 2nd book release and I am excited to share this book with you. Each of us are born with a hunger that is nurtured by our parents. Once they leave this earth, we have to make a decision to return to God to direct us into our purpose. If not, we will become orphans unsure of how to develop resilient in a performance based life. This book is an invitation to those who are struggling with identity, pain, and hurt encouraging them to be authentic in their journey towards healing and peace.
Oh Darling! You Rock: Bouncing Back From Life’s Turn Ups and Downs will be available on February 28!
Danita Ogandaga, MSW 