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If I Could Teach an R.I.P. Class……….

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OMG—–grief is SOO Heavy but after a few recovery sessions this week and preparing to teach tonight’s Authenti-Scope on Defining Seasons: The Seasons of Loss got me thinking about ALL the KRAY encounters I have had:
 
If I could teach a RIP (Rest In Peace) class, I’d ask them to:
 
+ Wait until the survivor reaches out to you to share the belongings of the deceased.
+Have a Will and Execute the Last Will and Testament which includes the desires of the deceased.
+NEVER ask if they need anything…the answer is YES, even if these needs can’t always be communicated.
+ I don’t think your aunt knew the Lawd, cause she smoked Black N Milds up until she died. WRONG….Stop it, you never know the relationship a person will have with God at the end of their life.
+REFRAIN from asking, “What did you do with the insurance money?” Did you pay your offering to the church with it?
+ Aunt Sadie wanted me to have her bracelet, the gold one, and you have not even signed her probate paperwork.
+She/he looks so natural in the casket……um…..actually they are not.
+Can you put me and Uncle Earnest on the program when you were ghost from day one.
 
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Grief & Loss

“All Lives Lost”: Grieving w/the Families of Flight 370

 

 

 

mayaRecent reports rang throughout the world that all lives have been lost and the Malaysian Flight 370 loaded with approximately 239 passengers from all backgrounds, nationalities, and religions have perished.

In a recent interview, Prime Minister Najib Razak reported that the airline responded via text message declaring its “deepest regrets leading to an assumption that Flight MH 370 has been lost and that none of those on-board survived.”

Suddenly, a loud wailing burst forth from families whose repetitive questions week after week since this suspicious and mysterious vanishing of the plane led to no clue of understanding where their family members are. We can only imagine how helpless they must have felt to be in such a state with no definitive answers of the last moments of their loved ones.

This type of grief produces complicated grief for many where there is no finality associated with the death of a loved one and no proper burial or resting place. The passengers aboard were not just that or crew, they were fathers, children, mothers, sisters, brothers, cousin, and friends. We take this time to pray for those who are survivors of the lost.

In the days ahead, the tasks of grief may seem complicated but we wish the family peace in gaining acceptance for the loss of their loved ones. The tasks of grief, developed by William J. Worden include

  1. Accepting the reality of loss
  2. Experiencing the pain of grief
  3. Adjusting to a life without the deceased
  4. Withdrawing emotional energy and investing in other relationships.

All of these things will not be done overnight, we pray for the strength of the families in the days ahead.

 

Grief & Loss

Join us for He First Loved US: Grief Support on Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day can be hard for some. You are not alone. Join us for a different kind of activity….of comfort…..of loss…..of hope!

I hope you can join us for this brief encounter of love, hope, healing. Turn sorrow into peace and allow God’s grace to hold you when you’re torn. #grieftalk #lovesupport

Register FREE here https://www.facebook.com/events/538102512970574/?context=create&ref=42

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