It’s been a long time I must say since I have entered a blog post on my website partly due to having another baby just 7 weeks ago and dealing with nine months of hyperemesis gravidarum but we’re still here.
If you are new to my work, allow me to introduce myself to you. My name is Danita and I am a trained social worker, coach, and author who believes to the core of my soul that alot of the things that we deal with in this life are not based on illnesses but the state of mind in which we frame them. For the past twelve years, I have traveled across the world teaching people about the orphan spirit, handling trauma, and how to balance the life and work transitions that we go through. I LOVE to work with people who are in need of organization of thoughts, inventory of traumas, and overall good people who want to be re-directed to their purpose after all, we have a wonderful destiny that awaits us; each of us!
Tonight, I will be doing a Facebook Live on my professional page @DanitaSOgandaga and invite you to attend. This LIVE is for you if you have tried to keep telling yourself to get over it and are tired of being told to get over it, because the truth of the matter is, YOU ABSOLUTELY ARE NOT!
I am not thirsty and I am not looking on these blogs for any tea ok. There is so much going on in the world today that could never be compared to the relationship status of two people and their decision to call it quits, but while I am here, let me say this real quick…………can we #TalkRelationships ?
Woke up this morning to the news that America’s cutest couple, Omarion and Apryl have called it quits. Instagram and social media will never be the same seeing provocative yet cute and cuddly pictures of this couple loving on each other as they bring two beautiful children into the world.
We followed them and many gained a restored sense on #blacklove and the desire to try again was instilled all because of this couple. Clueless to the day to day, unsaid, uncued, and captured moments in the silence of themselves, we wanted to be just like them. Why? Social media creates a perception that becomes reality in the eyes of those desperately searching. Traditional human behavior teaches us to continue the status quo even when we have seen our parents swim in it and and in some cases drown.
Unless you are living under their roof, you’ll never know the real details. The Love and Hip script on television often outweighs the cultural, societal, and emotional pressure that people face. While #relationshipgoals, #ahtheysocutetho hastags are flying all around, the reality is that there is no perfect relationship and for whatever reason, even the bomb sex, having two children one year apart, a reality series contract, good God genes, or the like can not outweigh the truth:
Cows make milk for to nourish the thirsty but even cows suffer dehydration. Selah.
Maybe she had a moment of sanity, waking up from her pause thinking why did I put my life on hold to make a life with you? A common situation many women find themselves in when they situate themselves into a comfort zone, playing house with all the amenities except for the one that truly counts: Commitment
I do not want to speculate or assume, just speaking on the obvious, I would dare say that even though she may feel light in her ability to wake up, I am sure taking to social media creating a Snap Chat in front of your child to proclaim to the world that “A B**tch Happy really is translation for, ” I woke up, walked out, not sure of next step but I gotta say something.” Just my guess but I pray that their streets align, co-parenting reigns, and if this just so happens to be another lemonade session, may they profit themselves into Holy Matrimony.
Oh, and please, for the love of Jesus, get your OWN #RELATIONSHIPSGOALS!
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Recent headlines………Pastor Jamal Bryant fathers a child, Worship Leader, Isreal Houghton is involved in a new relationship, Pastor Flow is a sippin saint……enough already…….
Tired of preacher bashing. Real Preachers of Atlanta, LA or where ever have the same options, emotions, temptations, tendencies, as the pew warmers. Separation comes from the lights, cameras, and the benefits of the calling. It still takes the same prayer and decision that pew warmers make to forsake becoming a Thot, weed head, baby daddy or mama, messy Felicia, or addict. In the last 90 days, I’ve encountered the detestable yet human behavior of preachers in the pulpit but am inclined to further place them as well as myself on the altar. Point: People are people filled with the Holy Ghost they are NOT the Holy Ghost. The cross has always been there and if you find yourself out of range in your situation, come closer. #☕️🏊
Listen to Session #26 on Authenti-Scope Friday at 9pm on FB LIVE
It’s been a long time I must say since I have entered a blog post on my website partly due to having another baby just 7 weeks ago and dealing with nine months of hyperemesis gravidarum but we’re still here.
Danita Ogandaga, MSW 