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Grief & Loss, Uncategorized

If I Could Teach an R.I.P. Class……….

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OMG—–grief is SOO Heavy but after a few recovery sessions this week and preparing to teach tonight’s Authenti-Scope on Defining Seasons: The Seasons of Loss got me thinking about ALL the KRAY encounters I have had:
 
If I could teach a RIP (Rest In Peace) class, I’d ask them to:
 
+ Wait until the survivor reaches out to you to share the belongings of the deceased.
+Have a Will and Execute the Last Will and Testament which includes the desires of the deceased.
+NEVER ask if they need anything…the answer is YES, even if these needs can’t always be communicated.
+ I don’t think your aunt knew the Lawd, cause she smoked Black N Milds up until she died. WRONG….Stop it, you never know the relationship a person will have with God at the end of their life.
+REFRAIN from asking, “What did you do with the insurance money?” Did you pay your offering to the church with it?
+ Aunt Sadie wanted me to have her bracelet, the gold one, and you have not even signed her probate paperwork.
+She/he looks so natural in the casket……um…..actually they are not.
+Can you put me and Uncle Earnest on the program when you were ghost from day one.
 
+ ADD YOURS HERE……………………………………
Culture & Communications, Uncategorized

You are Everything………

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Today is everything. The 3 Sessions that I had today proved that life is exactly what you CHOOSE to make it. Becoming a content creator was one of the toughest decisions that I faced but has proven to be the greatest source of healing that I could ask for. There is actually a possibility that what you THOUGHT you were created to do could actually be replaced by what you were DESTINED to do. Choices, decisions, actions, we’re faced with everyday and when things become hard, when no one returns your call, or buys your products, or comes to your events, you wanna quit.

When was the last time you SHINED your light, MOVE, get out the way! Getting to YES is everything…..the yes comes from DEEP WITHIN, not from the next person after you’ve gotten the cold shoulder. Resolve within yourself that you are ENOUGH and the gifts and talents you bring to the table are ENOUGH. I wrote this to encourage you but it is a CONSTANT reminder to myself. As I am writing this, my books, online courses, and therapy sessions are being booked and sold because my focus has become SERVICE. Do your destiny, go on, with your good self!

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Leap into a New You!

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LEAP……..that is a full word. Especially when you are trying to stay connected to something that is no longer serving you. We are taught to acquire things in this life but not really sure of what to do once those things are lost. Spirit, soul, and body, I call you to LEAP into the new and out of the old, LEAP from the pain of your failed purpose, relationships, jobs, relationships, LEAP into the fullness of what God is doing in your life. Part time faith will never yield full time benefits. Give yourself to the one who made you and all that you are trying to control. LEAP and worship the Holy One!