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Celebrating 10 Years of Marriage Today 10/22/2015

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Happy 10 Years Married Darcy Franck Ogandaga! Today is our WEDDING ANNIVERSARY! This scripture used to make me cringe. Back then, I refused to shut up, had to make my point with tantrums, boisterous to get his attention and then my walk with Father God began. He would just sit there and look at me and smile. I learned, not from formulas, from momma, but from time with Father God how to settle my spirit and identity the fear of submission. I do not profess to be holier than thou just eager to find peace in my home and through the years, I have learned that (1) Being loud only magnifies your voice not your opinion (2) Identity the fear of submission after all, I have worked on me for a long time. Why would I want to now give myself as a project to someone else. STOP IT. You don’t have to (3) Quiet the noise of my unmarried friends who knew so much. Stop looking outward for people to solve your situations cause between Google, Blogs, and Magazines, they can do that real good (4) Dismiss the biased opinions of family & some friends that did not understand that being married to a man of African decent does not mean control. People are real good at bulking you up. Why do you think every fight on the street is surrounded by people cheering the conflict on until that ONE PERSON comes to clear the crowd? Hummmm. When you can put tradition in its proper place, YOUR CULTURE BECOME CHRIST 1st. (5) Make love often. Whether it is acts of service, dancing in the house to Earth, Wind, & Fire or time in the bedroom, floor, or whatever (come on married people), make time for love AND FINALLY, (6) Put YOUR HOPE, YOUR PEACE, YOUR JOY in Christ ALONE! Love the gift that God has blessed you with in your mate and enjoy each and every day. Bebejoufloue loves you DJ Darcy B~

I encourage you to visit my book boutique at http://www.danitaogandaga.bigcartel.com for my latest book which is selling limited copies, Miscarriage and Marriages in honor of our 10th year wedding anniversary and this month being National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Rememberance Month.

Love you all and thanks for reading!

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rePLAY: Miscarriages and Marriage: The Art of Recovering All 10.19.15

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Were you on the webinar last night?

If you were not we encourage you to take the time this morning, at lunch, or later on today and get encouraged. Our special guest, Toya aka T-Prissy, CEO of T-Prissy Worldwide, and I partnered to being this webinar to you to encourage you that no matter what you are going through in your life, you can recover all!

Grief is not a beautiful topic and many of us do not want to deal with it, we’d rather mask, hide it, bury it, or just act like it does not exist. You do have those that have simply healed from it, and although that is great, they may or may not want to reach back to help others come out of the hell they were just delivered from.

Last night was RAW, transparent, and real as Toya and I shared the ups and downs of following a call from God, dealing with loss and miscarriages, and how to continue walking with God when it may not be the most popular thing to do. We want to encourage you to continue to follow Christ.

Please SHARE, COMMENT, and LISTEN to this powerful teaching! http://app.webinarjam.net/register/7990/e3971bb27b

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Take the time to pre-order your copy of our newest look book available now for pre-order at  http://danitaogandaga.bigcartel.com/product/marr

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Marriage and Miscarriages: New Book & Webinar Series

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In honor of love, loss, and the pursuit of happiness………

We hope that you will join us this entire month for the weekly Monday night “Essential Truths About Your Identity” webinars. The webinars were created with you in mind to encourage you no matter what stage of your development and pursuit of God. We love you and want you to know that God does too.

So if you have been supporting me over the years then you know that the heart of all that I do is restoration, leading you back to the love of Father God by breaking the orphan spirit, and healing from grief. I utilize my company, GriefTalk and my training as a social worker to coach people through their periods of complicated grief. For more information about that you can check out my website at www.danitaogandaga.com to book your appointment.

This month is full of activities. In honor of the millions of babies that have died to miscarriages, still born births, eptopic pregnancies, tubal pregnancies, and others, we honor the mothers and fathers alongside President Ronald Regan who in 1988 proclaimed the month of October as National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. There are so many people doing amazing things across the US in honor of this month. It is also Breast Cancer Awareness Month and I celebrate the lives of every survivor including the life of my dear sister, Djakarta Solomon Lynch. I also take this time to honor and remember those who lost their lives to this terrible disease.

Finally, this month ushers in 10 years of marriage to my partner, Darcy Ogandaga. God has been faithful to us and we want to share with you what we have learned through the good and trying times of our marriage. We are teaming up with two powerful women this month, Toya T-Prissy and Cafria Hart, internationally known women of God who defy religion to help people understand who they really are in Him using culture and everyday life to encourage you back to the Father’s embrace.

I invite you to join us every Monday at 9pm est. Be sure to save your seat with this link http://app.webinarjam.net/register/7990/e3971bb27b

Registration is free.

Also, prepare yourself to get your hands on the release of our latest project, “Marriage and Miscarriages: The Art of Recovering It All. It is actually a look book that features our family’s journey in photo as well as commentary and encouraging words for your journey. I will release the pre-order button this evening for this project so check your emails.

We love you and know that God loves you too!