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Celebrating 10 Years of Marriage Today 10/22/2015

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Happy 10 Years Married Darcy Franck Ogandaga! Today is our WEDDING ANNIVERSARY! This scripture used to make me cringe. Back then, I refused to shut up, had to make my point with tantrums, boisterous to get his attention and then my walk with Father God began. He would just sit there and look at me and smile. I learned, not from formulas, from momma, but from time with Father God how to settle my spirit and identity the fear of submission. I do not profess to be holier than thou just eager to find peace in my home and through the years, I have learned that (1) Being loud only magnifies your voice not your opinion (2) Identity the fear of submission after all, I have worked on me for a long time. Why would I want to now give myself as a project to someone else. STOP IT. You don’t have to (3) Quiet the noise of my unmarried friends who knew so much. Stop looking outward for people to solve your situations cause between Google, Blogs, and Magazines, they can do that real good (4) Dismiss the biased opinions of family & some friends that did not understand that being married to a man of African decent does not mean control. People are real good at bulking you up. Why do you think every fight on the street is surrounded by people cheering the conflict on until that ONE PERSON comes to clear the crowd? Hummmm. When you can put tradition in its proper place, YOUR CULTURE BECOME CHRIST 1st. (5) Make love often. Whether it is acts of service, dancing in the house to Earth, Wind, & Fire or time in the bedroom, floor, or whatever (come on married people), make time for love AND FINALLY, (6) Put YOUR HOPE, YOUR PEACE, YOUR JOY in Christ ALONE! Love the gift that God has blessed you with in your mate and enjoy each and every day. Bebejoufloue loves you DJ Darcy B~

I encourage you to visit my book boutique at http://www.danitaogandaga.bigcartel.com for my latest book which is selling limited copies, Miscarriage and Marriages in honor of our 10th year wedding anniversary and this month being National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Rememberance Month.

Love you all and thanks for reading!

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rePLAY: Miscarriages and Marriage: The Art of Recovering All 10.19.15

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Were you on the webinar last night?

If you were not we encourage you to take the time this morning, at lunch, or later on today and get encouraged. Our special guest, Toya aka T-Prissy, CEO of T-Prissy Worldwide, and I partnered to being this webinar to you to encourage you that no matter what you are going through in your life, you can recover all!

Grief is not a beautiful topic and many of us do not want to deal with it, we’d rather mask, hide it, bury it, or just act like it does not exist. You do have those that have simply healed from it, and although that is great, they may or may not want to reach back to help others come out of the hell they were just delivered from.

Last night was RAW, transparent, and real as Toya and I shared the ups and downs of following a call from God, dealing with loss and miscarriages, and how to continue walking with God when it may not be the most popular thing to do. We want to encourage you to continue to follow Christ.

Please SHARE, COMMENT, and LISTEN to this powerful teaching! http://app.webinarjam.net/register/7990/e3971bb27b

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Missed the GriefTalk Podcast? Watch the Replay Here of ” Why Is Life So Hard?”

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It’s easy to name every excuse in the book as to why we are attracted to glitter and gold. Underneath the glitter and gold lies the truth of our situation and the pain of what we have been running from. Past hurts, old wounds, complicated grief that will not settle down in silence to heal.

Every girl dreams of the wedding day wearing that white dress, carrying the flowers, saying I do. Once the marriage takes place, you realize that marriage is the number one development system created by God and the tantrums, meltdowns, and silent trips won’t help you into becoming the person you were created to be.

Rather than looking at the glitter and gold, become still so that your heart can heal. Those things that you carry on the inside of you are magnified in marriage and holding onto distractions from the left and right won’t do. Take the time to know that a few seconds of rolling around in the bed will not fix your brokenness.

Sex does not heal.

Sex does not heal.

It makes you feel good, but sex does not heal.

It’s time to give your heart, your whole heart to your mate but you can not do that if you have not first surrendered your heart to God. He is big enough, strong enough to hold the issues of your past.

At the heart of every orphan is a desire to surrender their heart to someone.

He is waiting.

Have you purchased my new book, “Overcoming the Orphan Spirit”? Learn more about what the orphan spirit is and how to overcome it. Purchase here ( Kindle or Paperback)