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Infant Loss Hurts Like Hell…………..

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Silence screams loud. In honor of Pregnant and Infant Loss Rememberance Day today (October 15), we honor every baby that has become an angel. We soothe the inner struggle today that some women feel when asked, “How many children do you have?” We understand and trust me, each child counts!

If you’ve ever lost a child, I know you can relate. Please don’t bury yourself in pain today, allow God to minister healing to your emotions, mind, and spirit. He can put broken things back together again. Listen to the powerful interview with best selling author Queenie Kellye Brownsharing her story.

Also featured is Dr. Sandra Coley who spoke on organ donation following the loss of her son.

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“All Lives Lost”: Grieving w/the Families of Flight 370

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mayaRecent reports rang throughout the world that all lives have been lost and the Malaysian Flight 370 loaded with approximately 239 passengers from all backgrounds, nationalities, and religions have perished.

In a recent interview, Prime Minister Najib Razak reported that the airline responded via text message declaring its “deepest regrets leading to an assumption that Flight MH 370 has been lost and that none of those on-board survived.”

Suddenly, a loud wailing burst forth from families whose repetitive questions week after week since this suspicious and mysterious vanishing of the plane led to no clue of understanding where their family members are. We can only imagine how helpless they must have felt to be in such a state with no definitive answers of the last moments of their loved ones.

This type of grief produces complicated grief for many where there is no finality associated with the death of a loved one and no proper burial or resting place. The passengers aboard were not just that or crew, they were fathers, children, mothers, sisters, brothers, cousin, and friends. We take this time to pray for those who are survivors of the lost.

In the days ahead, the tasks of grief may seem complicated but we wish the family peace in gaining acceptance for the loss of their loved ones. The tasks of grief, developed by William J. Worden include

  1. Accepting the reality of loss
  2. Experiencing the pain of grief
  3. Adjusting to a life without the deceased
  4. Withdrawing emotional energy and investing in other relationships.

All of these things will not be done overnight, we pray for the strength of the families in the days ahead.

 

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Satan’s greatest tactic against women is their identity. Dealing with the elephants in the room, acknowledging toxic relationships, and de-centralizing people, places, and things from our center are keys to having a resilient, ready to change life! 

Danita Ogandaga, MSW 

 

 

 

 

Take A Glimpse Inside The Book: 4 Important Tips You’ll Learn

  1. Denial is not a great strategy to develop in life. Unfortunately, most have settled for this sedation. Emotional resilience and faith in God guide you through life’s difficult truths.
  2. Create a life right where you are after you clean you closet! My favorite strategist, Seth Godin said it best, ” Instead of wondering when your next vacation is, maybe you should set up a life you don’t need to escape from!”
  3. Telling the “lizard brain” to shut up builds focus. All of us are born with the capacity to get it done. God reminds us that His strength is so perfect when we’re weak; yet we keep going. Making a decision to keep moving in the face of adversity and learning  how to choose your battles is key to your victory!
  4. Prescriptions can’t fix it all. Drowning our virtue in food, pills, shopping, sex, and swinging never made the case. Victor Hugo crushed it when he exclaimed, ” Virtue wears a veil, vices wear a mask!”

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